College Graduation...The Scary Truth

            You’re 22 years old, the extent of your work ethic is writing papers and studying for exams, and with a sudden flip of the tassel you’re kicked to the street and told to be an adult. After college graduation, all of the decisions are yours; only you’ve never been on your own before. So what’s the appropriate emotion? Fear? Anxiety? Excitement? With the availability of jobs for recent college grads not being the most promising, this year proves to be a little more stressful than usual. I decided to talk to my sister, Jordyn Pecoraro about her thoughts on graduation and the future after her commencement ceremony from Philadelphia University. Being a fashion business major, jobs aren’t being handed out like candy to begin with, even before this economy. Even with her stacked resume of working for DSW for an extended period of time as well as studying abroad and landing an internship in London, the fashion capitol of the world for a semester, she was still unable to secure a job for after graduation. It makes you think if that’s not enough, then what is? After multiple rejections her last attempt was a success, and she got a 5 day a week unpaid internship in New York City for the summer. With her fingers crossed, she’s hoping to be hired by the end of it.

            But finding a job isn’t the only focus of graduation. It’s the newfound independence, the freedom. After 17 years of someone making your schedule and plans for you, it’s quite a culture shock to now have to reconstruct your life. It’s a newfound freedom, yes, but for some it’s too much of a good thing. Another thing to worry about is where to live. For those who are fortunate enough to have found a job, it’s a matter of apartment searching and finding something affordable to your budget. But what is affordable when you’ve got 4 years of student loans piled up and no source of income yet? And if you do not have a job, then do you consider the option of moving back home? All of these things are concerns graduates have to think about before they walk off that stage and move their tassel.

            Aside from the logistical plans of the future, it was expressed to me that simply leaving behind the memories and way of life is one of the hardest parts of graduation. That school is your home and those people are your family, how could it be easy to say goodbye to it all at once? You have to grow up and accept the inevitable change no matter how much it hurts.

            There’s a lot that goes into college graduation, mentally, emotionally, and physically. It’s not all about the celebrations and parties and freedom for most graduates. Yes graduation day is one to rejoice, but you’d be surprised to find out how many fresh alumni actually fear the day, which I found out after speaking to my sister and her friends.

            As I’m nearing the end of my sophomore year here at Hofstra, this has really made me realize I need to shape up!